Thursday, April 7
Under my observation, I see that out of 100% of men, 90% of them would like to involve sex in a relationship. Is it important and the best way to keep the relationship healthy? Or is it concerning the two parties who want it just for fun and somewhat addicted to it. Their belief has already changed. I still remember in school, my teacher taught us that it is very sacred that partner should be married first before they lose their virginity, but now, not anymore.
Mostly Filipinas who are known as a “Maria Clara” and a conservative one was influenced already by other countries especially America, which have a big participation in the television or entertainment industry here in the country. They just simply flaunted their bodies, and sometimes get easily naked. Women nowadays are too aggressive that they are the one who’s courting a guy and liberally expresses their feelings towards the guy they like.
Of course this doesn’t mean women are more aggressive than men and men don’t throw in anything on this aspect. I think men are more liberated because they are men, simple as that. Boys will be boys. And the more experience they get the more proud they are. They just do it just to have something to brag among their friends, it’s like kiss and tell. Women are more anxious and unease in spilling it. But in men’s part, it’s something to brag about.
Sometimes on the net, when I had a chance to chat on MIRC or Yahoo Messenger, there’s always comes a time that a guy just mocked me and say one of these lines “Honey, are you horny?” or “Are you still virgin?” or “You can hire me, just name the price” or “What are you wearing?” Lines that have been replaced from the usual “Hello!” or “ASL” and leads to (CS) cybersex or sometimes (SEB) sex eyeball. I had asked some of them if anybody fall in with that idea just to answer my curiosity. And they answered me yes, and added that I’m just one of the few people who are unaware of it and against it. And so I wonder, is it really the fact that most youngsters these days really involved in that matter?
So I must say the conservative "Maria Clara" was already faded and here comes the liberated and aggressive Maria Clara now and we were really influenced by other countries that are too open for that matter.
That’s why casual sex is now spreading in our community, mostly this millennium compared to way back 1980’s. There’s also a premarital sex that most teenagers are encountering that leads them to being a parent at very young age or single parent or worst leads them to abortion because they are not yet prepared for such responsibilities.
The first time I stepped in a club where all teenagers gets to party really hard was really surprising and bolt from the blue! I wasn’t really expecting what happened all throughout that night. They have hired dancers which are all girls that are dancing on top of a bar or the table which they call “ledge dancers”. Then, the music just started to be more intense. Later on, guys are shouting these three teasing words together, “Take it off” to all the girls. I was shocked because all the guys are shouting those words sounding like shouting “Makibaka” on a rally event looking for a justice. To my surprise all the girls are stripping while they are shouting. They are pulling their skirts up so those guys can see their thongs. Suddenly, I’m unaware that to my surprise I just place my hand over my mouth expressing my disposition being shocked. My cousin took off my hand away from my mouth and whispered to me, “Don’t be too obvious and get caught that it’s your first time.” So I acted like I was used to it and try to don’t mind them.
Then, when hopped into the next club, but not the same day, came another instance again. But this time it wasn’t the ledge dancers anymore who do the entertaining. It was the customer herself that I don’t know if she’s drunk or had taken some drugs that she’s confident enough to show off her breast in front of those greedy eyes, then simply caressed and rubbed it herself, and later on took off her pants too and *censored*.
Then, hopped again into the next club, but this time I’m getting myself used to strippers that’s why it’s not a big issue on me anymore. The music inside the club really gets you groove that’s why me and my cousin who’s with me didn’t let our time be wasted just sitting on the side and sip on our drinks until its empty and order for another one. We really want to enjoy the night ourselves and so we looked for prospect guys. Then, I saw one already. He’s a tall guy, medium built, has clean cut hair, and cute. We were about to move near to their place but it’s just too overcrowded that we can hardly get near them. Then, our eyes met accidentally, I smiled at him and I wasn’t anticipating his smiling back at me. I guess that was the hint. We were about to meet halfway but 2 guys blocked in front of me and the other one asked me for a dance. And it’s kinda awkward saying no as an answer, so I gave it a shot. Then, he’s asking informations about me that took a long while. Then, I gazed on my prospect guy, just then I knew he already got a partner. Too bad! I went to the restroom as an excuse to get off of my partner.
Then later on, back to what I planned. Grab my cousin’s hand then took ourselves into the dance floor again. Just knew then that he’s with a friend who’s cute too. So, I told my cousin to partner up his friend *hehe* that’s the strategy. Then at last we got near them. My cousin and I are dancing facing each other. Then my prospect guy moves to my back while his friend on my cousin’s back. Later on, a hand just placed on my waist, it was his. Then, a little later, my plan worked. I am dancing with him. He’s so tall that the top of my head reaches his shoulder. He’s dancing closer and closer to me until he grabs my back that made my head get into his chest. I must say, he really got a nice body. I’m kind of aloof to our position that I turned around so he’s facing my back. Then it’s getting more passionate that makes me sweat aside from the heat that I’m getting due to the jam-packed people. He placed his hands again on my waist, then it moves on my tummy and he’s a bit rubbing it. And to my surprise he suddenly, moves up his hands reaching my breast and luckily I’m alert, so I hurriedly placed my hands over my breast to protect it away from his malicious hands. Then, he turned me around facing him now. He, once again, placed his hands on my waist and then moves them slowly over my butt. I was shocked once again. I grabbed his hands away from my butt and then I turned around, and then talked to my cousin who’s beside me dancing with my partner’s friend telling her that we’re leaving the dance floor. Then she agreed. We walked away from them without any words to those maniacs. Then, we went to the restroom and chat about it. My cousin told me that her partner too was trying to reach her butt and do malicious things and then, I told her what happened to me there. Then that dance went to disappointment because those cute guys were maniacs! What a night though!